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It's been a busy few weeks. All of us on Team Mongoose wrapped up school. Papa Mongoose did really well in his writing class. It was a tough go of it, getting back in the school routine, but it paid off with a big ol' A. Lil' Mongoose finished up school yesterday. He is officially a middle schooler now. I got my grades back yesterday and was really proud. Although I wasn't able to get that elusive 4.0, I did get an A, and two A- so I can't really complain.

Today is the first day of our new summer parenting time schedule. Gage will be with us 1 whole week at a time. It's kind of exciting. Our time together is often so short and couched in school that we don't get to have downtime to hang out. We have enrolled him in camp for a week in August which sounds like so much fun to me. Lots of swimming and activities. The week Gage and I are spending today, tomorrow and Monday by ourselves. We have a pretty adventure packed day today and we have kickball tonight as well. Tomorrow, more artsy crafty stuff as we have Father's Day cards and a birthday card for Nena to work on.

This weekend should be a lot of fun. Nena and Pa are coming on Saturday morning. We are going to celebrate Nena's belated birthday on Saturday with a bike ride along the Marine Drive trail and picnic lunch. On Sunday we are taking the Dad's on a boat ride up the Willamette. It should be a fun weekend.

What summer adventures do you have planned?

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